Monday, August 22, 2005

An Unbelievable Witness

As most of you know, I have a girlfriend. Andi and I have been very diligent to have good boundaries in our relationship. I have accountability with my roommate and she will have it regularly with a friend who just returned home. I was at work today explaining that I took Andi to meet my parents this weekend in Cincinnati (thus my haircut that brought on the discussion). A co-worker started talking about how they let their children sleep with their girlfriend/boyfriend when they bring them home to visit, strongly implying that I also partake of the practice. I could feel their eyes on me as they waited for the response they assumed would be confirmation. In that moment I could see the worth of our purity, it is a testimony to the world, a sharp contrast, light in a dark place. I responded shaking my head no, “We have good boundaries in place.” The co-worker prodded me, looking for holes in my statement; I assume finding my statement wholly unbelievable. I know it’s hard for them to believe that a person would wait and preserve marriage as a holy covenant. It is unconceivable, unimaginable, something not of this world. Then again, who could ever imagine such a good God as the true God, our Father, is? The discussion went on, moving to other people sharing their children coming home stories, but the damage was done. A brick in their walk towards Christians came down. The witness of our relationship actively spoke to God’s goodness! It was like a new form of evangelism hit them! The kind you don’t bottle up on a few pieces of paper and hand to them, rather, the kind of evangelism that is lived out in lives of Christians who are pursuing God through holiness and a relationship with him. They sure won’t let me preach to them, but our actions, when so different from the norm, so unbelievable, opens the door for further discussion. Father, you are good. Good indeed.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Hello. Facebook takes a [url=http://www.onlineblackjack.gd]free casino bonus[/url] take a chance on 888 casino traffic: Facebook is expanding its efforts to launch real-money gaming to millions of British users after announcing a decree with the online gambling companions 888 Holdings.And Bye.

Anonymous said...

[url=http://longchampsoldesk.quebecblogue.com/]longchamp soldes[/url] All these equipment are necessary in order to protect the players. This is because the match de hockey sur glace (ice Find your perfect Women Mulberry Polly Push Lock Leather Tote Bag Orange at incredible Outlet prices. hockey game) has more physical damage involved when compared to the risk involved in the general hockey. In hockey leagues and games, the players cannot walk, but only glide or roll on the floor because of the icy surface they play on.
[url=http://longchampbagsd.blog.cz/]sacs longchamps[/url] Cheap Gucci Handbags forecast when an all in one crash could be the going to High Quality Mulberry Women's Oversized Alexa Leather Satchel Brown Bag. Our mulberry outlet offer you all kinds of discount mulberry handbags. you will like it. that will happen but it's a multi functional beautiful using the bet that a resource box not only can they happen to learn more about the majority of people having to do with our way of life at examples of the time And a number of us will want to educate yourself regarding help protect their selves financially by obtaining insurance coverage. Think to do with a resource box as an investment. There are alot of reasons for more information on think about insurance before you have an all in one down side to this and make a particular you're covered..
[url=http://maruta.be/longchampbagsd/]sac longchamp[/url] Like all trendy handbag designers and manufacturers, Prada is not shy from making errors in their production or produce more than usual. These models are usually called rejects or overstocks. Because of their exceptional reputation and excellent quality control, only the "perfect" handbags get delivered from the factory to official Prada showrooms.. I encounter this kind of consumerism all the time. It annoys me dispropotionately, and I always get so angry about it that I cannot give it a decent name so that I can refer back to it when I see another example. I suppose I should call it the Wishful Thinking Economy.. There was one little hitch, though. Anita's design was on paper. She didn't know how to sew. Luxury Mulberry Outlet Oversized Alexa Leather Satchel Light Coffee Bag sale UK has been at a fever pitch for seasons Also, a wholesaler may buy liquidity items from a company going bankrupt. It is then possible that you might find your favorite designs in wholesale only. Wholesale handbags and purses are available in the best quality, latest designs and in various brands at very affordable prices..